Not so Bad Anymore
14 07 2009Funny how when you are being a whiny brat things come a long that snap you out of it. Which was my plan all along! Or atleast that’s my excuse.
I just had an awesome workout that cleared my head and got me out of the house a bit, but even better, not one, but 2 opportunities just came my way, in the course of literally an hour, brightening my day considerably. Things are looking up.
Also, Ashley reminded me that instead of whining and being crappy I should take it upon myself to make me feel better, which is what Im going to do. i really need to work on remembering that life isn;t just about work, and then recouperating after work. I need to have fun, and do new things and make memories. I have the whole day off, so I am going to do something just for me with my free time. I’m not sure what, but it is NOT going to be writing/networking related (which is usually what I do with free time- like I said, work rules my life) and it also can’t cost money, because, well, that was the cause of my crappy mood in the first place.
Any ideas?






You are well on your way to feeling better. Working out is one of them, but also writing & reflecting is also a great way to do it! Keep smiling. If all else fails, get a drink
Sorry things have been a bit tough kelly! i can only imagine how much stress you’ve been under! when this sort of thing happens to me, i love to be outside… what about going for a hike? things will turn around, just keep swimming!
Working out is always a good free activity! Rollerblading, walking, hiking… I’m not sure what all you can do in Seattle.
Read books! Nap! Goodness, now I’m starting to wonder what I do for fun… mostly just lay around or exercise I guess! lol
just checking in on you.
for me it is often a little workout and a lot of trash tv which does the trick.
Im bravo LOWBROW that way.
Glad I could help a bit
Some ideas:
-walk
-run
-read (or go to a library/bookstore and browse)
-nap
-hobby?
-cook
-swim
-yoga
-window shop
Enjoy your day!!
I vote for walking Alki with the pup and lots of napping and bad tV!!!!!!!!!
Find something you can do for someone else. Service is a universal pick-me-up: you can’t do it and not feel better about things.
love this post! keep positive! xo
Just now realized you’re updating again and have been playing catch up. This sucks that you’re having a down period. So much on your plate, it’s like a buffet in hell.
My hubs can relate to your frustration with trying to market your writing. The industry isn’t like it was 5-10 years ago. It’s just too difficult to make money with writing. I even see some accomplished writers contributing works for free for magazines.
So, an extra congrats on finding new prospects!
*hugs* life can be overwhelming. Hope you’re feeling better!
Being a writer is tough. Don’t give up–you are one of the smartest voices in women’s fitness.
I’m a writer, too, and when I get frustrated, I take a walk and think about the lousy jobs I could be doing. You might not be where you want to be right now, but at least you’re heading in the right direction.
Idea: Sex? Haha.
Anyway, I’m considering freelance projects for extra cash. If you use any good websites to find projects, please send them my way.